Pag puno talaga ng galit at pagtatampo ang puso mo, walang magandang mangyayari sayo at sa relasyon niyo. nagiging immature ka sa mga bagay na simple lang naman kung tutuusin. lahat ng bagay gagawin mong big deal. Na imbes maayos agad ang dapat maayos, lalong tumatagal dahil sa taas ng pride na umiiral sayo. Na sa ganitong pag aasal, di mo naiisip na baka lalo siyang lumayo at mawala sa piling mo.

Habang maaga, ayusin mo na. huwag kayong maghintayin kung sino ang unang magpapakumbaba sa inyong dalawa. huwag mo muna unahin ung galit. huwag mo hayaang kainin ka ng galit sa puso mo, kasi sa maayos na usapan nareresulbahan ang bagay na yan. 

Tandaan mo, hindi ibibigay ng Diyos ang bawat pagsubok sa relasyon niyo kung hindi niyo ‘to kayang lagpasan. may ibang hindi nagtatagumpay, kasi sumusuko kagad. at naka depende sainyo yun kung dahil lang sa simpleng tampuhan, susuko na kayo pareho. kapit lang sa isa’t isa at huwag mo kalimutang magtiwala. Promise, magiging maayos din ang lahat.

There is only one thing I want you to do - never give up on me. When I push you away, pull me back. When I shout at you because I am so angry, hug me tightly. When I don’t answer your calls, come to my house and visit me. When I get overly clingy, assure me that I’m your only one. When I feel overly insecure, remind me how blessed I am. When I’m about to give up on you, kiss me and show me why I shouldn’t.

I know this is too much to ask. But still, I am hoping that you love me enough to do this, to stay, and to be a little more patient.

P.S. I do the same for you.

” — (via escafeism)

”..Matagal bago ko narealize na walang instant happy ending.”
Ang pagmamahal, package yan. Lahat kasama sa loob nito, yung saya, kilig pati na rin yung lungkot. Sa isang pagsasama, hindi pwedeng wala yung problema, ito yung mga problemang magpapatibay sa inyo, ito yung problemang magpapatunay na kayo niyong dalawa, na hindi niyo susukuan ang isa’t-isa ng basta basta. Ang mga problema yung tutulong sa inyo para maging matibay, yung magtuturo sa inyo na kailangan nyo ang isa’t-isa, hawak kamay para malampasan yon. Walang perpektong relasyon at walang ring mabilisang happy ending, ganon ang pagmamahal, pinagta-trabahugan, pinaghihirapan para pag-dating nyo sa dulo, lasap na lasap niyo yung tamis ng pagsasama nyong dalawa, sa dulo mararamdaman nyo yung pagmamahal na naipundar nyo para sa isa’t-isa, yung malalim na pagmamahal. Yung pagmamahal na ‘di basta basta mawawala. 

I found a partner in crime in YOU 

No, not the literal partner in crime. Of course, we must not let ourselves to be involved in crimes. That’s wrong! But seriously, you showed me what a REAL partner is. In all those crazy moments, you are with me. You are there laughing with me. Thank you for allowing me to share my happiness with you, and I’m glad because I did.

Remember those times when we couldn’t stop laughing because of something we did or we talked about? How I wish we’ll continue to be like that in the years to come because I really like seeing you so happy. I love making you smile even if it requires me to do silly things, make fun of myself, anything… anything that will brighten your day. I volunteered to be your own clown even if you’ll surely tease me for that; and you know how much I hate you for teasing me at times. But that won’t make me love you any less. 

And you pay me back by bringing joy in my life. You are always on the go in everything that we do. You’re a YES person! Whenever I asked you to go to that place, to eat at that resto, to do that thing with me you never said NO, unless your schedule won’t allow you to which of course I totally understand. I loved it the most when you thanked me for making you try things which are new to you. Well, that’s no problem dear, like I said I love sharing my happiness with you. We truly are a great team. I don’t need others to see that because I myself feel that and with all these adventures we had, I guess we already proved that to ourselves. We are a team together—-You and me. I love you my partner in crime.

“If he still sees the beauty in you and still falls more in love with you after seeing your weird facial expressions, your unusual laugh, your constant complaining, your ugly days, your pig out days, the way you toss and turn in your sleep, your stupid jokes, the way you ask questions about the thing you should already know the answers to but he answers them anyway, your obsession with strange things, your random sounds, and your immaturity. Then you already know that this is the man.” — (via strawberrytelle)

A girl need a bestfriend, someone she can share her deepest secret with. Have someone to talk to with her crazy shits, someone she can share her interest like cute boys, her favorite scent, what turns her on, her favorite book or someone who she watches sweet chick flicks with. She need a bestfriend who will listen to her, be by her side at good time or at bad times, a bestfriend who does not run away even though things to be done a crazy ideas. A bestfriend who will keep her company. 

A girl needs a partner. Someone special. Someone who surprises her with flowers, someone who hugs her tight, someone who makes her feel special and beautiful. She need someone to spend time with her, do all her favorite things, someone who sings her favorite songs, someone who can make her feel that she can be in her favorite sweet chick flicks. She need someone that will love her with all the flaws and imperfections she has. For a girl can never be completely happy without that someone that holds the half of her heart. 

Nakakainlove yung taong magkapareho kayo ng gusto at ayaw.

Pero mas nakakainlove yung taong kahit ayaw nya, basta para sa’yo gugustuhin nya.

After two weeks…

Na puro pag-aaway, di pagkakaintindihan, bitin na oras ng pag-uusap at hindi pagkikita, Naging okay narin ang lahat sa pagitan naming dalawa. Kala ko tatagal pa yung ganoong estado namin, pero thanks God kasi binigyan niya kami ng chance para ayusin yung lumalabong relasyon namin. 

Pinuntahan ko siya kahapon. And as I saw her, parang naging okay na ang lahat bigla. pero syempre medyo pakipot muna! Nag date kami saglit sa mcdo bago umuwi sakanila. Pagkauwi sakanila, pagpasok sa room niya, inakap niya ko kagad ng mahigpit. at sa yakap na yun, ramdam na ramdam ko kung gaano niya ko namiss. she kissed me for so many times, at inaamin kong isa un sa pinaka namiss ko din. 

I cried a lot as we start talking about our relationship. hindi padin kasi naaalis sa isip ko na although kasama ko siya kahapon, pwedeng ngayon o bukas back to basic ulit. wala na ulit siyang oras sakin. hindi na ulit kami makakapag kita at usap. but it’s just a matter of trust, ika nga niya. kung magtitiwala ko, magiging okay padin kami. yung nalabas ko na lahat ng hinanakit ko sa nangyare, gumaan ng todo yung pakiramdam ko. nakakangiti na ulit ako ng walang halos kaplastikan. at ngayon? Ito sweet sweetan na ulit kami tulad ng dati. 

Tama nga, basta may hindi kayo pagkakaintindihan ng partner niyo, kung nakakaramdam kayo ng pagka cold sa isa’t isa, pag usapan niyo kagad. huwag niyo hayaang tumagal pa. kasi sa pag-uusap na yun, maaayos lahat ng issue niyo sa isa’t isa. Sa pag-uusap na yun, babalik ulit sa dati ang lahat. puno na ulit kayo ng pagmamahal. No if’s and doubt’s.

And I guest that’s one of the best thing that happened to us. As much as we trust each other sa mga panahong katulad nito, walang hindi pagkakaintindihan na hindi mareresolba agad. Mahal ko siya at mahal niya ko. Yun parin ang pinaka importante sa lahat. ♥

Kapag galit siya sayo, asahan mong wala siyang masasabing maganda.  Asahan mo ang pabalang na pagsagot, galit na mga mata at boses at maging pagtaas ng tono ng kanyang pananalita. Hindi ka makakarinig ng mga malalambing na salita habang ganyan siya, walang I love you, kumain kana ba o ingat ha. Ihanda mo ang tenga mo sa masasakit na salita na maari niyang sabihin sayo. Dapat handa mo siyang pakinggan kung bakit siya nagkakaganyan kung kasalanan mo talaga. Huwag na huwag mo siyang tatalikuran habang nagkakaganyan siya, kung ayaw mong magkagulo kayo lalo. Tandaan mo, iba mag-isip ang galit na tao. Huwag kang sumabay sa galit niya, ibaba mo ang pride mo, makinig at itikom ang iyong bibig. Ipaliwanag mo ang mga bagay na dapat niyang malaman. Aminin ang nagawang kasalanan, humingi ng patawad hanggang sa maging okay siya ng tuluyan, iparamdam mo na sinsero ka at hindi na uulitin ang kamalian. Palawakin ang isipan at maging ang pisi ng pasensya dahil hindi madaling paamuhin ang gutom at galit na leon. Maaring tumagal ang galit ng ilang oras o araw, depende sa kung paano mo ipapaliwanag ang lahat at kung paano ka hihingi ng dispensa at patawad.

Some girls say they aren’t beautiful. Like hey, don’t underrate yourself just because you’re not contented with what you see in mirrors. Try to look in your own reflection without thinking you’re ugly. Try to peruse yourself without telling yourself you’re not pretty. Try to penetrate what’s inside of you, and you’ll understand what I mean.

Real boys fall for personality. And personality doesn’t always rely on the context of physical attributes. It’s just that people are created with disparate hues, but it doesn’t make you less deserving for the love you deserve.

You are beautiful. Everyone is beautiful. You are more than the reflection you see in mirrors. It’s just a virtual image, and what’s inside you is the real image. That’s it.